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ash20 | I have been trying to stop with my obsession of the cards & readings but I have been wanting to know this question for a while. Does she intend to call? I'm sorry I can't exchange. **Edit: If she doesn't contact me I will be cool with that. I've learned not to be too hopeful or have too many expectations... especially with my family** |
thequeen | Yes but she's expecting the same in return from you. She is a bit skeptic of you though. has some sort of boredom seeped in?. though it appears the relation in some way's loosing it's charm. things will be cleared out between you too and will head in the direction which is best for you. make up/ break up whatever. is there a lot of weariness, have you lost the fun element please lemme know when she calls.. ------------------ ~~What doesn't kill you makes you stronger~~ |
ash20 | Thank you! And I will update when (if... Don't want to get my hopes too high!) she finally does. If you feel like it could you tell me what is making her skeptical of me? |
ash20 | She is actually my sister |
thequeen | quote: Originally posted by ash20: She is actually my sister
She doesn't think she can communicate with you what she feels like..it's a trust issue i guess..either of you have trust issues.. Nice to see a brother concerned. mine is a ….#$ lol ------------------ ~~What doesn't kill you makes you stronger~~ |
ash20 | Yea we haven't talked in years (she's my half sister) so I guess there could be some trust issues. Idk if others have been telling her negative things about me but i've wanted to reconnect since I was about 15 (21 now). Btw i'm her sister lol. Thanks again |
thequeen | quote: Originally posted by ash20: Yea we haven't talked in years (she's my half sister) so I guess there could be some trust issues. Idk if others have been telling her negative things about me but i've wanted to reconnect since I was about 15 (21 now). Btw i'm her sister lol. Thanks again
Lol..I'm sorry that you're a girl..okay..that is really sad.. Even if you get in a conversation now it's going to be argumentative. I know it hurts, but take a step back, don't be too submissive but that talking to her won't be a cakewalk It might come off as harsh but I think she doesn't think that much about you as you do. Take your heart inside, it's best to not bring up issues that can't be resolved. At least currently. Did you ever share an emotional bond with her? ------------------ ~~What doesn't kill you makes you stronger~~ |
ash20 | You actually said exactly what I was thinking. I believe she could care less if we talked. I haven't really had an emotional relationship with her, we've always lived far apart but I did always ask about her. I realize it's all one sided now. |
ash20 | Just to update: We talked! And it went way better than I'd hoped! She had been looking for me too. |
thequeen | quote: Originally posted by ash20: Just to update: We talked! And it went way better than I'd hoped! She had been looking for me too.
Hey, I'm glad to know it. Congrats. Was she the one who called you? ------------------ ~~What doesn't kill you makes you stronger~~ |
ash20 | Well she messaged me but I made the call after finding out she had been trying to call through another family member and couldn't get through. I am still thankful for the reading you gave but happy it wasn't so bad |